- Overview
- Installation and Options
- Compatibility
- Characters
The intent of this mod isn't just to allow women to romance Morrigan and men to romance Alistair, it's to add everything missing in these romances to make them as immersive as possible. Whenever there's an opportunity to flirt with an npc that was gender restricted, I made it open for gay/bi wardens as well (cause let's be real, the only gender restrictions were in favour of straight flirting). This involved a ton of dialogue and audio editing, along with constructing brand new dialogue.
What this mod includes:
- Characters won't misgender the Warden. This applies to every time the Warden's relationship with Alistair or Morrigan is acknowledged.
- Any gendered dialogue has been edited.
- Added new banter for characters so that they'll acknowledge the gay relationships.
- Added jealousy dialogues for Alistair and Morrigan if the Warden is cheating on either of them with the other.
- Women can do the dark ritual with Morrigan.
- Women can marry Anora.
- Men can marry Alistair.
- Previously dude exlusive flirting options for Leliana are now open to women.
- Removed unnecessary gender restrictions on the Warden's dialogue options.
- Any bugs that I encountered have been fixed.
- V (3.0.0): Alistair will no longer refer to himself as king when he isn't. I added new dialogue and audio for this.
Installation and Packages
Please always download the most recent versions of the packages and patches that you use. I often miss a bug here and there and patch it accordingly.
Core package
Download the main package and drop it into "Dragon Age/packages/core/override/".
The core package and all the patches is/are compatible with ejoslin's ZDF Dialog Fix. Just be sure to remove the following files from ZDF:
alistair_main.dlg/dlb
arl110cr_kaitlyn.dlg/dlb
arl230cr_eamon.dlg/dlb
den200_isabela.dlg/dlb
epi_alistair.dlg/dlb
epi_leliana.dlg/dlb
leliana.dlg/dlb
party_ran_banter.dlg
zevran_main.dlg/dlb
Important: If you are using a .dazip version of ZDF or any mod, you do not need to replace any files from that mod. Simply drop the core package (my mod) into the override folder. This applies to all my packages and patches.
Due to issues with the 4.0 package, it has been temporarily removed and this mod is no longer compatible with DAO Fixpack.
If you're using ZDF, remove the following files from its package:
cir230_cullen.dlg/dlb
If you're using ZDF, remove the following files from its package:
cir230_cullen.dlg/dlb
*added 4/15/2017
Download this package if you want your wardens to marry either Alistair or Anora regardless of their race and origin.
To install, replace the following files in the core package with the versions in this package:
den510_anora.dlg/dlb
den600_landsmeet.dlg/dlb
*added 5/14/17
*added 4/26/17
One last thing I want to mention is that this also restores the cat fight banter between Morrigan and Leliana. All but two of them were heavily gendered so only those two are available to women and all are available to men. Imo Bioware cutting this dialogue was one of the few things they did right so if you're like me and have love for yourself you can skip this additional banter by removing the party_ran_banter.dlg file from this package. If you want to keep this new banter just replace the file of the same name in the core package with this one.
If you decide to uninstall MRP, be sure to uninstall this package as well
*added 4/27/17
If you decide to uninstall ZevRing, remove this package as well.
*added 5/03/17
*Yup. You're no longer dependent on IRS's dlb file. God bless.
If you uninstall Improved Romance Scenes, remove this package as well.
*added 5/07/17
arl110cr_kaitlyn.dlg/dlb
arl150cr_bella.dlg/dlb
arl230cr_eamon.dlg
bhm100_jowan.dlg/dlb
den200_gorim.dlg/dlb
den200_isabela.dlg/dlb
den510_anora.dlg/dlb
party_camp.dlg/dlb
arl110cr_teagan.dlg/dlb
arl110cr_teagan.fev/fsb
And remove the core version of the following files (IA already implements the changes I made to them so you should just use theirs):
ntb100cr_cammen.dlg/dlb
ntb100cr_gheyna.dlg/dlb
bed100cr_tamlen.dlg/dlb
You can still use this package if you uninstall Improved Atmosphere.
*added 5/08/2017
Replace the den510_anora.dlg file with the one in this package.
*added 5/10/2017
Use this package if you use tmp7704's Mild Romance Scenes. Replace the leliana_main.dlg/dlb and alistair_main.dlg/dlb files with the ones in here.
If you uninstall Mild Romance Scenes, uninstall this package as well.
*No one actually asked for this but I really like this mod so this was a personal gift that y'all can have too ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
*added 5/10/2017
Use this package if you use cmessaz7's Cullen romance option - Mage Origin. Replace the bhm300_cullen.dlg and the cir230_cullen.dlg files in the Flirt With Me You Coward package with the versions in this package.
If you uninstall Cullen romance option, uninstall this package as well.
And, Yes. There are clipping issues but there isn't a single thing I can do about that because I have no way to edit the cutscenes.
*added 5/11/2017
Use this package if you use Cullenite's Revenge of the Cousland. Replace the howe_script.ncs files from the Alistair and Morrigan versions with the ones from the respective folders of mine.
Uninstall this package if you uninstall RotC.
There are clipping issues but I can't edit the cutscenes so I can't fix them.
*added 5/17/2017
Use this package if you use nancyferg's LRS Leliana Romance Scenes. Replace the following files with the versions in this package:
den300_shianni.dlg/dlb
epi_leliana.dlg/dlb
leliana.dlg/dlb
morrigan_main.dlg/dlb
If you uninstall LRS, uninstall this package as well.
*added 5/17/2017
Use this package if you're using both LRS Leliana Romance Scenes and the Morrigan Restoration Patch. Replace the morrigan_main.dlg/dlb files with the one in the this package.
No Ninjamancing Patch
*added 5/20/2017
Use this package if you're using my No Ninjamancing. Replace the following files with the ones in this package:
alistair_main.dlg/dlb
arl100cr_alistair_origin.dlg/dlb
leliana.dlg/dlb
morrigan_main.dlg/dlb
party_camp.dlg/dlb
party_events.dlg/dlb
party_events.dlg/dlb
zevran_main.dlg/dlb
*added 5/21/17
Use this is you use the Improved Atmosphere Patch and the No Alistair Foursome Package. Replace the den200_isabela.dlg/dlb files with the ones in this package.
*added 5/22/17
Use this package if you use sanchia's Zevran Romance Scenes. Replace the zevran_main.dlb/dlg files with the ones in this package.
Uninstall this package if you uninstall Zevran Romance Scenes.
No Ninjamancing + ZevRing Patch
*added 5/25/17
Use this package if you use both No Ninjamancing and ZevRing. Replace the zevran_main.dlb/dlg files with the one in this package.
*added 5/25/17
Use this package if you use Dahlialynn's Alistair Epilogues - The Royal Wedding. Replace their alistair_scenes_main.ncs file with the one in this package.
*added 5/29/17
Use this package if you use both No Ninjamancing and Improved Romance Scenes. Replace the alistair_main.dlb/dlg files with the one in this package.
*added 6/07/17
Use this package if you use both No Ninjamancing and LRS Leliana Romance Scenes. Replace the leliana.dlg/dlb and morrigan_main.dlb/dlg files with the one in this package.
*added 6/12/17
Use this package if you use both No Ninjamancing and the Morrigan Restoration Patch. Replace the morrigan_main.dlb/dlg files with the one in this package.
No Ninjamancing + MRP + LRS Patch
*added 6/12/17
Use this package if you use No Ninjamancing, LRS Leliana Romance Scenes, and the Morrigan Restoration Patch. Replace the morrigan_main.dlb/dlg files with the one in this package.
*added 6/18/17
Use this package if you use Vaire's Dialogue Tweaks. Replace the following files with the ones in this package:
bhm100_jowan.dlg/dlb
leliana.dlg/dlb
zevran_main.dlg/dlb
leliana.fev/fsb
zevran_main.fev/fsb
For all packages, you can edit which characters this mod affects by removing their appropriate folders. And you can uninstall any package, including the core, just by deleting the folders.
Compatibility
I have made patches for many conflicting mods and will do so for any other ones if it's within my ability.
- Witch Hunt DLC (Important: you must import a save from after you kill the Archdemon. Even if you romanced Morrigan and didn't break it off, the game won't recognize it if you choose a save from before killing the Archdemon)
- Polygamey
- Dalish Mage - Origin
- DahliaLynn's Sleep Until Dawn
- Rendezvous at the Tavern
- DahliaLynn's - Alistair's First Night Love Scene
- DahliaLynn's - Alistair's Nightmare
- DahliaLynn's - Alistair's Visible Kiss
- Kisses
- Alistair Romance Fear
- Alistair Romance Appetite
- Alistair Romance Attraction
- Alistair Romance - The Steamy Bits
- Alistair at The Pearl
- Alistair Sex Scene And Kisses - Human Male
- Save Connor - No Fade
- Alistair Romance Eavesdropping. (Mod author cleared that up with me)
- Ser Gilmore companion NPC - Fully Voiced. This mod changes the den200_isabela.dlg/dlb file and the kinds of changes that it makes would require me to have the builder to builder resources which I don't have access to. You'll need to pick mine or theirs when you speak to Isabela.
- Gatekisses. Requires staging files that I don't have access to.
- Alistair Male Romance and Marriage (with edited VO and fixes). We accomplish the same thing with our Alistairs but we go about it differently.
- Equal Love. My mod accomplishes everything this one does and so much more.
* Version 2.0.0+ no longer overwrite the vanilla plo and ncs files.
Below is the list of every single file I changed:
- arl100cr_alistair_origin.dlb
- arl100cr_alistair_origin.dlg
- arl110cr_kaitlyn.dlb
- arl110cr_kaitlyn.dlg
- arl110cr_teagan.dlb
- arl110cr_teagan.dlg
- arl130cr_dwyn.dlb
- arl130cr_dwyn.dlg
- arl150cr_bella.dlb
- arl150cr_bella.dlg
- arl150cr_berwick.dlb
- arl150cr_berwick.dlg
- arl230cr_eamon.dlb
- arl230cr_eamon.dlg
- alistair_main.dlb
- alistair_main.dlg
- bdc200_leske.dlb
- bdc200_leske.dlg
- bdc100_unna.dlb
- bdc100_unna.dlg
- bdn120_gorim.dlb
- bdn120_gorim.dlg
- bed100cr_tamlen.dlb
- bed100cr_tamlen.dlg
- bhm100_jowan.dlb
- bhm100_jowan.dlg
- bhm300_cullen.dlb
- bhm300_cullen.dlg
- bhn100cr_duncan.dlb
- bhn100cr_duncan.dlg
- cir230_cullen.dlb
- cir230_cullen.dlg
- cutscene_funeral.dlb
- cutscene_funeral.dlg
- cutscene_postcoronation.dlb
- cutscene_postcoronation.dlg
- cutscene_slideshow.dlg
- den200_isabela.dlb
- den200_isabela.dlg
- den200_gorim.dlb
- den200_gorim.dlg
- den300_shianni.dlb
- den300_shianni.dlg
- den510_anora.dlb
- den510_anora.dlg
- den511_vaughan.db
- den511_vaughan.dlg
- den600_landsmeet.dlb
- den600_landsmeet.dlg
- epi_alistair.dlb
- epi_alistair.dlg
- epi_fergus.dlb
- epi_fergus.dlg
- epi_leliana.dlb
- epi_leliana.dlg
- epi_loghain.dlb
- epi_loghain.dlg
- ntb100cr_cammen.dlb
- ntb100cr_cammen.dlg
- ntb100cr_gheyna.dlb
- ntb100cr_gheyna.dlg
- orz530_ruck.dlb
- orz530_ruck.dlg
- party_camp.dlb
- party_camp.dlg
- party_events.dlb
- party_events.dlg
- party_ran_banter.dlg
- pre100_daveth.dlb
- pre100_daveth.dlg
- pre100_duncan.dlb
- pre100_duncan.dlg
- pre100_prisoner.dlb
- pre100_prisoner.dlg
- leliana.dlb
- leliana.dlg
- morrigan_main.dlb
- morrigan_main.dlg
- shale_new.dlb
- shale_new.dlg
- zevran_main.dlb
- zevran_main.dlg
Characters
Below are some video examples of the changes in the dialogue for the characters. If you want a far more in depth look at every single change (and I do mean every single one) look at the Readme.
- Trans women exist
- It's magic you will deal
Below is her friendship talk with the Warden and she will now ask a lady warden if they would like to be together, which was something that she would ask guy wardens.* There's also her jealousy dialogue involving Alistair, which was a bear and a half to do let me tell you.
* Fun fact: this is my favourite scene that I made
Alistair
Below is Alistair's rose gift scene and his jealousy dialogue involving Morrigan, which was a lot easier to do then Morrigan's might I just say.
Below is the Warden asking her about the seductive wiles of bards along with a flirt option.
Zev thankfully only required a small number of changes, the biggest ones acknowledging a guy Warden marrying Alistair and a lady Warden marrying Anora, which are shown below.
Guy wardens can now teach this poor elf about the birds and the bees.
Now dudes can have Cullen pine after them and hear him voice these regrets in front of their entire party. You're embarrassing me indeed.
Characters that I didn't record include Tamlen, Berwick, Duncan, Dywn, Ruck, and Unna. I went through every single dialogue file in the game, trust me when I say that I covered everyone outside of two character for reasons that are explained in the Readme (they are extremely minor characters I promise that you won't miss them).