Regarding 1.6 update for Stardew Valley:
I haven't played through the events yet and it might take a bit of time. SMAPI does not complain so far (except for the version number in the file which you can ignore for now). In theory it should work, but if you encounter anything odd feel free to mention it on the discussion page.

This changes Shane's 2 heart and Elliott's 4 heart event because my char doesn't want to get drunk and I consider it impolite that they don't ask while Caroline asks in regards to tea.

This isn't a very creative way but I'm not creative to begin with.

The change in the event with Elliott makes a bit more sense when you've 2 or 3 hearts with Gus (a barkeeper knows his customers and their preferences), but I haven't added it as an additional condition.

Installation: Unizip the file you want to use and put it into your mods folder. You can use both at the same time.

Incompatible with mods changing those 2 events.

There are better mods solving this issue (i.e. Atras Interaction Tweaks - aka Stop Rug Removal let's you ask Elliot for a non-alcoholic drink). But I only wanted this part and not all the other parts from alternative mods.

If anybody wants to translate the mod: Feel free.

If there are other similar events in the base game (I don't know all of them), feel free to mention them. I will not adjust events for other mods.

Credits: Some very helpful people at the SDV discord.