Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord
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A very simple script fix to remove the gender check on marriage dialogue options

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This mod removes the gender check when starting a romance by talking to an NPC. Once you have started a romance, you will be able to progress through the normal courtship stages. It also adds some configurable options for increasing the maximum marriage age and enabling female/female pregnancies.

A few lines of dialogue are replaced in the romance conversations to fix you and your partner referring to each other as the wrong gender. Be warned that some of these changes will not appear in languages other than English.


The mod contains a "config.xml" file with a few values you can tweak. The file is found in the mod install folder under ModuleData.
The available options are:
  • pregnancy: value must be one of Me, MyPartner, Neither. This setting determines who, in a female/female same-sex marriage, will get pregnant.
  • maxagefemale/maxagemale: overrides the maximum marriage age for each gender. Must be greater than or equal to 18.


Can I have children with this mod?
Only male/female and female/female marriages can currently produce children. To enable female/female pregnancies, change the pregnancy setting in config.xml to either "Me" or "MyPartner". The default setting is "Neither".

Who can I/can't I marry?
Your partner must be:
  •  in the correct age range (18-35 for women, 18-40 for men, or whatever you set in the config file)
  • currently unmarried
  • a noble (member of a kingdom)
  • not the leader of their faction (sorry, Rhagaea admirers)
  • not related to you within 3 generations

These are the same rules that exist in the base game, minus gender restrictions.

Can I marry Empress Rhagaea, one of my companions, or adopt children?
These are features that would go well with this mod but are probably out of scope. Since you can load multiple mods at once in Bannerlord, it's possible I or someone else will make a different mod that adds these features. In that case, I will try to ensure this mod is compatible.

Will you add gender preferences or more romance dialogue?
Not in this mod.

Will you add homophobia or polygamy?