How is the 'suitable spouse' list judged? There's a specific, clear best option to marry my 19 year old son to but they won't appear on the list. They're 26, unmarried, great attributes, compatible personality, same culture, I have great relations with the clan. But there's fifty year old Vlandian widows on the list who's clan I have 5 relation with instead of 96. I got this mod because their clan leader will only offer another 50 year old widow instead of the spouse I want, so I'm left very confused/frustrated.
Can the mod please just give us full control of marriage? Just give us a list of every unmarried woman/man and sort the list by culture. I'll settle for my second choice for now so no biggie. Just very confused my first choice isn't on the list despite all I said above.
(even if its not perfect, the mod really does help though, so thanks)
I haven't tested, but with "Mav's Expand Your Clan" you can recruit companions from anywhere, and can ask them to become your siblings. If you do that it may let you marry them off that way.
So in a city, go to tawern district and "Arrange a marriage for a clan member". I chose myself and married "minor noble" but later in family page it' looks like I have 21 wife (all same charecter that i married) and when i click "arrange a marriage for a clan member" that character looks suitable for marriage.
hello, when i choose my son to arrange a marriage then it says choose if either he would marry a minor noble or a peasant then when i choose either option it goes back to the main screen then a new clan member joined my clan. maybe something wrong? then i can arrange marriage again for my son and that new clan member who recently joined and when i keep repeating the options of which minor noble or peasant it keeps repeating itself and new clan members keep joining my clan. thank you and have a good day/night
Do i understand it wrong, because i thought by selecting the matrilinear marriage type that im not losing my female clan member so like that the male joins me but regardless both types seems to result in losing my female Clan member. The message shows that by bribery i can make the male join me but i cant figure out how?
When a child is born it is born to the clan/house. I have not seen a mod where the children go with the woman to her new clan. When your kid is 18, this mod, when it worked for me on [1.1.5] allowed me to claim them. There is a dialogue to do so. If you do this make sure they're not leading a party bc that can be a issue.
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Can the mod please just give us full control of marriage? Just give us a list of every unmarried woman/man and sort the list by culture. I'll settle for my second choice for now so no biggie. Just very confused my first choice isn't on the list despite all I said above.
(even if its not perfect, the mod really does help though, so thanks)
Can you add such an option?
https://report.butr.link/D06F27
I will be wait if this is going to update again.
https://report.butr.link/85BC45
It always crashes though, tried 5-6 times, all crash.