This is a batch file that will give you all the building materials needed to build any complete Hearthfire house.  I have seen a few here on the Nexus that do that but some of them are short items and some of them use chests and such. I prefer this method and I am about 80% sure I have every item you could possibly need no matter which wings you choose so you should NOT be short on any items.

Just unzip and put the materials.txt in your Skyrim folder (not the Data folder, the main Skyrim folder).  When you are ready to build, open the console and type "bat materials" and hit enter.  Voila!  There is a lot of items here so it will take a moment and you will be over your carry weight so be prepared with how you want to deal with that BEFORE you run the batch file.

If you do happen to be short any items, please let me know and I will update it.  I have tried different house configurations and so far, so good.

BEFORE you do this, you need to check your load order for where Hearthfires.esm is.  The items below are the Hearthfire items and are at the top of the batch file. The first 2 digits need to match what number Hearthfires is in your load order. If it's 3rd, the first two digits should be 03. I have 2 versions, one for 3rd position and one for 5th as that seems to be the most common. Check your load order and download the one that fits. If yours is not 3rd or 5th in load order, just pick one to download, open the text file, and change the first 2 digits of the below items in the file to whatever your load order is. 

player.additem 05003035 163 ; Iron Fittings
player.additem 05003012 60 ; Lock
player.additem 05003011 120 ; Hinge
player.additem 0500300f 589 ; Nails
player.additem 0500300e 367; Sawn Log
player.additem 05005a68 22 ; Straw
player.additem 0500306c 189 ; Quarried Stone 
player.additem 05003043 71 ; Clay 
player.additem 05005a69 50 ;glass
player.additem 0500303f 50 ;goat horns