I was waiting for someone to come up with a male high elf follower that is marriageable, but alas no one made one...so I attempted to make one for my first mod ever.

Faerthurin is a destruction mage; also marriageable. He is located in Solitude in the Winking Skeever (the inn) on the lower level.

REQUIRED MODS:
Apachii Sky Hair - http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/10168

RECOMMENDED MODS:
Better Males: http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/mods/2488/

For Installation:
Drag and Drop the files into your Data folder. Typically, this folder is found:
C://Program Files/Steam/SteamApps/common/skyrim/Data

Load order (make sure this mod is after all required mods in load order.)