There are a lot of files related to BBLS.
I thought I would take a minuet and list the load order that works for me while useing EVERYTHING.

If there is something on the list you personaly dont use, just omit that line and continue on.

ApachiiHair.esm
ApachiiHairFemales.esm
BBLuxurySuite.esm
SummerWear.esm

BBLuxurySuiteEXT.esp
BBLSapachii.esp
BBLSapachii_Light.esp
BBLSHousecarlsmovin.esp
BBLSspouse.esp
BBLSVisitors.esp
BBLSMotseerOutfits.esp
BBLSmusic.esp

BBLSBoMHFTeleport.esp
BBLSGuysApachii.esp
Farquar's Girl Gwendolyn.esp
BBLS No Ore or Soul Gems for v5.esp
BBLS_MM xxxxxxxxxxx.esp

BBLuxurySuiteClassier.esp
BBLuxurySuiteDisplayRoom.esp or BBLuxurySuiteClassierDisplayRoom.esp
ClassierTempleofMara.esp
SummerWearSA.esp
SummerWearBBLS.esp
BBLSPatioFurniture.esp